Sunday, January 27, 2008
Frustrations in mind
What do i actually want???
I have thought for this question for a long time. What do i actually want? What do i want in my future? What career do i actually want to get involved? This is very important for me as i am ready to plan for my future now.
Do i want to make a lot of money? I want!!!
Do i want to have more time to stay with my beloved one? I want!!!
Do i want to make my life meaningful? I want!!!
Do i want to gain respect from others? I want!!!
Yet, can i get them all?
I have a lot of problems playing in mind recently. I am tired of facing them. What can i do about this? In order to solve the problems, i have to list out all those problems first and then analysis them one by one.
My first problem: future. What should i choose for my future career? What should i study in tertiary institution?
I have used a lot of time to think about this, but what is the answer? My interest lays in different fields. I still need time to discover myself, but not just spend time in thinking. I shouldn't worry too much about that.
My second problem:love. I suddenly fear that she will come back one day and introduce her boyfriend to me. What can i do about this? Put all this in action!!! Show her your sincerity! Go for her!!!
After thinking about this, my mind gets relief. In fact, this is a good way of managing problems.
Sometime we may feel frustrated with all this kind of problems. However, we have to stay calm all the time so that we won't get lost. By listing all the problems, we ourselves may feel a little relief as we may think that: actually my problems are not as trouble as my thought.
This is because we have the full view of all the problems.
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Huh a good question!!! Still feel doubtful about your future career?
Yeah, indeed for a person like me who is already in the university, still couldn't answer this question firmly. Perhaps we, mankind, need to experience a lot before we could unravel what we really want.
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