My mind is quite messy today. No, it has been messy for a long time. I found a lot of thoughts in my mind and i really don't know where i actually lay. I almost lost myself...
I know i want to be a great person but at the same time i also find out a lot of shortcomings on myself. I really don't know what i actually have. Where my values should lay?
Hahaha...self confidence, what is that? Do i have this kind of thing? I fear to get around with people as i don't know how to become part of them. I will feel nervous for each time my friend call me for gathering. Especially when i need to talk to people, i will worry that our topic of conversation will be running out fast and at that time we all will stay quiet.
They say most of the social skill lay on listening to what people talk, but how should i make people talk a lot to me even though i am ready to listen to what they are willing to say. Tony Buzan said the ratio of listening to talking is 2:1 as god only gave us a mouth but a pair of ear!!!
When would i be able to overcome the fear??? I really don't know what should i do to improve my social skill....help me,God...
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